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Sep 12, 2012
I feel like ranting a few issues....excuse the not so good to read sentences. :)
Logically when we love someone soo much it will cross our mind that we wish to tie the knot. But tak bolehlah bluntly trus2 nk kahwin kan? kena well prepared, cukup syarat and all.tak payah la smp kena ade mansion n ferrari tiga empat biji baru bleh masuk minang anak dara. tu mmg gold digger n plastik namanye. bak kata matlutfi 'plastik, adalah sampah paling byk kat dunia'. so klau dh ckup syarat n ade ape yg wajib tu, kena la nikah kan? klau x freee freee je buat dosa.. si laki tak kisah la tanggung la dosa sniri. yang si perempuan ni. ada terfikir pasal dosa tu? ur father dok menanggung lagi tau dosa tu.
bukan nk kutuk sesape ye, diri fifa sniri pn kekadang terlupa. setan suke cucuk2 lagi bile kite nk buat dosa.
jadi apa conclusion die? nak tahan nafsu? mmg impossible laa nak buat cmtu. nafsu kat sini bukan maknanye ke arah +18 tu. sebelum ke arah tu punye cara. like my dad always say 'find the cause, n remove the cause'. jadi ape cause die; 'nk menggedik, nk tu nk ni; diri ni rindu dah membuak2' so to remove the cause; 'jgn slalu contact, jgn slalu terpikir, jarang2 kan jumpe'. klau org dengar mesti diorg ckp, 'ceh baik tak yah couple'. mmg pn, baik tak yah couple kan? lagi senang idup. sometimes benda tu mmg ada dlm hati nih. hati makin lama makin tawar. tapi come on la, diri dah besar. dah 'adult'. please think like an adult. masa dulu tgh zaman2 rebel n nk try mcm2. of cos la buat salah mcm2 till menyesal smp sekarang pn ada lagi. that's how we gained experience. we learn from our mistakes. since dah tau itu ini salah, jgn la buat lagi. :).. tp actually bila lama tak jumpa n all. bila jumpa tu, rindu tu lain.ada byk sgt nk bercerita. bila kita tgk muka die kita rasa senyuuum je..rasa background ni flowery2 je. that's the real picture of love. every second counts. klau dah hari2 mengadap muka, lame2 jd cm telur busuk. semua benda tak kena, asyik nk bergaduuuh je. n if u ada intention nk kahwin, nnt dh kawin mmg ngdap muka tu je. klau sekarang ni dah tau semua benda alah, everyday tgk, every minit kene update. later on dah xde ape nk dicerita..sblom kahwin endah bak matahari terpancar..dah together macam nasi basi. pastu gaduh, pastu cerai. penyebab asal tu ape? sebab masa dulu pergaulan tak de batas, tak ingat dunia. kaaaann???
lagi satu hal, bila relationship ada masalah. especially klau dah kene cheat on that guy or this girl. hati ni hancur remuk smp xmau makanminum.nak matiii. i cannot live without u. hak tuih, xde harga diri ka? tapi bila dah kena mcmtu, still cari yg perangai mcm yg lama. tak kan nk cari lagi manusia mcm itu ini kan? ape bodoh sangat ke? klau ko dah tengok prangai laki/prempuan tu mcm ape je. jenis nampak laki/prempuan lain lalu trus tegedik2 mcm beruk. orang 'hi'skit trus rase org tu suka kat dia. how desperate/cheap are u? nak jugak couple dengan dia. awal2 dah tunjuk prangai haram jadah dia tu. klau dah laki/perempuan tu dah dump ko, tak suka kat ko, die ckp yg dia jahat ko baik n klau dia dh sebut tak nak hurt u again, i ni yg bermasalah; ape maknenye? open ur eyes please, they don't want u anymore. some girls/boys slalu heartbroken kene dump. diorg ni lah yg baik, sweet considerate tp partner diorg cam poopoo..then diorgg tak puas ati dgn sbb ape partner diorg dump diorg. it's so obvious that this partner of yours are bored of you. they can give thousands of excuses but the main reason is always, 'u're not fun'.
i'm not being skeptical but that's always the reason why things like this happen. i hate girls who are always desperate for guys' attention and can't stick to one. fyi, i've neverbeen in a relationship with anyone other that the one i'm with right now and he's the one that i wish to get married and live forever with. some might say, eleh minah tu bukan ade experience pun nk tp cakap lebih kurang. well mak cik, aku mmg xcouple 30-40 kali mcm kau. kejap2 tukar ur partner mcm tukar seluar dalam. dah la bila bercouple tegerdik2 over2. ingat org suke ke tgk? pastu main tukar2 plak tu. ko xde maruah ke minah? tolonglah weh, mmg dulu aku xpernah couple langsung dgn sape2, scandals tu ade la. dulu zaman sekolah semua tu kenal2 n learn how guys' mind works. i'm a little psychology freak. as we get older as we met many people, we will learn how the wheel turns. plus for me being in relationship is like giving away your heart virginity. so you have to decide very well, knowing his/her future. in 10 years what will it be.. you can foresee where the two of you will be at. and always always remember never ever make promises. tak kisah la nk jumpe kat kantin skolah pun, jangan berjanji. bila ada plan ape2 selalu sebut insyaallah. ingat untuk yang islam, bila kita mungkir janji kita dikategorikan as MUNAFIK.
i always remember, no promises is number one. we can plan but if god's will it will happen. trust, have faith and sincere are what needed to maintain a relationship. it's true every relationship has it ups n downs. but if you can go through with it no matter what the obstacles are, one day you will see how beautiful it is. from my personal experience, it's much better to have millions of obstacle at the beginning, doesn't matter if it takes 3-4 years but in the end, the result is so overwhelming..you will feel so puas hati, bangga then happy. you akan rasa betapa ruginya siapa yang awal2 dulu sangat happy, parents accept n all, xde masalah. tapi lepas satu masalah dtg. u dah involve kan semua org n tak reti nk handle the problem. lepas tu break up mcm tu je. sedih kan? bila org tanya advice from me, about this guy suke dia n all n all, die pn suka that guy,ape kene buat. my one n only question is 'do you have doubt in him? do u trust him?' always, they cannot say yes directly. n their relationship never stay till d end....sad but thats the truth. n never use ayat terkias2, bukan dlm class sastera pun. ape tak puas hati like; perfume u busuk i xtahan/ i tak suka tgk u pakai baju ketat2 nk tunjuk six packs/ ape ape je lah. cakap je la direct, tp cakap elok2 la..bgtau elok2 'yg perfume tu kuat sgt bau dia, tak suka bila org lain tgk u. bila keluar dengan i jgn pakai'. up to her la to accept ke tak, klau die rase diri die ada value, dia xkan pakai dah. part baju pulak; 'u jangan la pakai ketat2 sgt, nampak pelik,nnt orang ingat u gay(ops jgn ade yg terasa).' so rasenye klau yg jantan sejati tu xbuat dah kot?. well ni semua just my opinion jgn plak ade yg muncung mulut. anyway, that's how it is..communication tu penting..selalu jadi masalah punca utama communication..bila ade ter-miscommunication terus jadi perang dunia. even klau bawak flight pun tower salah bg info, mmg i'm flying without wings. jadi semua2 disana, jangalah jadi mcm pokka je, klau xtau pokka tu ape die tu mcm mengkarung. doh angguk2 mcm orang xde akal. bila nak bercouple, ber ber ape pun. tolooongla pikir. tolooongla value diri tu berape hengget. tolooooongla jgn buat prangai mcm jalang/gigolo. ko nak tegedik2 mcm hyena pegi la jauh2 jgn bg orang nmpak ye.
-ranting akan bersambung-
sekian
p/s: klau tak suka jangan baca!
Logically when we love someone soo much it will cross our mind that we wish to tie the knot. But tak bolehlah bluntly trus2 nk kahwin kan? kena well prepared, cukup syarat and all.tak payah la smp kena ade mansion n ferrari tiga empat biji baru bleh masuk minang anak dara. tu mmg gold digger n plastik namanye. bak kata matlutfi 'plastik, adalah sampah paling byk kat dunia'. so klau dh ckup syarat n ade ape yg wajib tu, kena la nikah kan? klau x freee freee je buat dosa.. si laki tak kisah la tanggung la dosa sniri. yang si perempuan ni. ada terfikir pasal dosa tu? ur father dok menanggung lagi tau dosa tu.
bukan nk kutuk sesape ye, diri fifa sniri pn kekadang terlupa. setan suke cucuk2 lagi bile kite nk buat dosa.
jadi apa conclusion die? nak tahan nafsu? mmg impossible laa nak buat cmtu. nafsu kat sini bukan maknanye ke arah +18 tu. sebelum ke arah tu punye cara. like my dad always say 'find the cause, n remove the cause'. jadi ape cause die; 'nk menggedik, nk tu nk ni; diri ni rindu dah membuak2' so to remove the cause; 'jgn slalu contact, jgn slalu terpikir, jarang2 kan jumpe'. klau org dengar mesti diorg ckp, 'ceh baik tak yah couple'. mmg pn, baik tak yah couple kan? lagi senang idup. sometimes benda tu mmg ada dlm hati nih. hati makin lama makin tawar. tapi come on la, diri dah besar. dah 'adult'. please think like an adult. masa dulu tgh zaman2 rebel n nk try mcm2. of cos la buat salah mcm2 till menyesal smp sekarang pn ada lagi. that's how we gained experience. we learn from our mistakes. since dah tau itu ini salah, jgn la buat lagi. :).. tp actually bila lama tak jumpa n all. bila jumpa tu, rindu tu lain.ada byk sgt nk bercerita. bila kita tgk muka die kita rasa senyuuum je..rasa background ni flowery2 je. that's the real picture of love. every second counts. klau dah hari2 mengadap muka, lame2 jd cm telur busuk. semua benda tak kena, asyik nk bergaduuuh je. n if u ada intention nk kahwin, nnt dh kawin mmg ngdap muka tu je. klau sekarang ni dah tau semua benda alah, everyday tgk, every minit kene update. later on dah xde ape nk dicerita..sblom kahwin endah bak matahari terpancar..dah together macam nasi basi. pastu gaduh, pastu cerai. penyebab asal tu ape? sebab masa dulu pergaulan tak de batas, tak ingat dunia. kaaaann???
lagi satu hal, bila relationship ada masalah. especially klau dah kene cheat on that guy or this girl. hati ni hancur remuk smp xmau makanminum.nak matiii. i cannot live without u. hak tuih, xde harga diri ka? tapi bila dah kena mcmtu, still cari yg perangai mcm yg lama. tak kan nk cari lagi manusia mcm itu ini kan? ape bodoh sangat ke? klau ko dah tengok prangai laki/prempuan tu mcm ape je. jenis nampak laki/prempuan lain lalu trus tegedik2 mcm beruk. orang 'hi'skit trus rase org tu suka kat dia. how desperate/cheap are u? nak jugak couple dengan dia. awal2 dah tunjuk prangai haram jadah dia tu. klau dah laki/perempuan tu dah dump ko, tak suka kat ko, die ckp yg dia jahat ko baik n klau dia dh sebut tak nak hurt u again, i ni yg bermasalah; ape maknenye? open ur eyes please, they don't want u anymore. some girls/boys slalu heartbroken kene dump. diorg ni lah yg baik, sweet considerate tp partner diorg cam poopoo..then diorgg tak puas ati dgn sbb ape partner diorg dump diorg. it's so obvious that this partner of yours are bored of you. they can give thousands of excuses but the main reason is always, 'u're not fun'.
i'm not being skeptical but that's always the reason why things like this happen. i hate girls who are always desperate for guys' attention and can't stick to one. fyi, i've neverbeen in a relationship with anyone other that the one i'm with right now and he's the one that i wish to get married and live forever with. some might say, eleh minah tu bukan ade experience pun nk tp cakap lebih kurang. well mak cik, aku mmg xcouple 30-40 kali mcm kau. kejap2 tukar ur partner mcm tukar seluar dalam. dah la bila bercouple tegerdik2 over2. ingat org suke ke tgk? pastu main tukar2 plak tu. ko xde maruah ke minah? tolonglah weh, mmg dulu aku xpernah couple langsung dgn sape2, scandals tu ade la. dulu zaman sekolah semua tu kenal2 n learn how guys' mind works. i'm a little psychology freak. as we get older as we met many people, we will learn how the wheel turns. plus for me being in relationship is like giving away your heart virginity. so you have to decide very well, knowing his/her future. in 10 years what will it be.. you can foresee where the two of you will be at. and always always remember never ever make promises. tak kisah la nk jumpe kat kantin skolah pun, jangan berjanji. bila ada plan ape2 selalu sebut insyaallah. ingat untuk yang islam, bila kita mungkir janji kita dikategorikan as MUNAFIK.
i always remember, no promises is number one. we can plan but if god's will it will happen. trust, have faith and sincere are what needed to maintain a relationship. it's true every relationship has it ups n downs. but if you can go through with it no matter what the obstacles are, one day you will see how beautiful it is. from my personal experience, it's much better to have millions of obstacle at the beginning, doesn't matter if it takes 3-4 years but in the end, the result is so overwhelming..you will feel so puas hati, bangga then happy. you akan rasa betapa ruginya siapa yang awal2 dulu sangat happy, parents accept n all, xde masalah. tapi lepas satu masalah dtg. u dah involve kan semua org n tak reti nk handle the problem. lepas tu break up mcm tu je. sedih kan? bila org tanya advice from me, about this guy suke dia n all n all, die pn suka that guy,ape kene buat. my one n only question is 'do you have doubt in him? do u trust him?' always, they cannot say yes directly. n their relationship never stay till d end....sad but thats the truth. n never use ayat terkias2, bukan dlm class sastera pun. ape tak puas hati like; perfume u busuk i xtahan/ i tak suka tgk u pakai baju ketat2 nk tunjuk six packs/ ape ape je lah. cakap je la direct, tp cakap elok2 la..bgtau elok2 'yg perfume tu kuat sgt bau dia, tak suka bila org lain tgk u. bila keluar dengan i jgn pakai'. up to her la to accept ke tak, klau die rase diri die ada value, dia xkan pakai dah. part baju pulak; 'u jangan la pakai ketat2 sgt, nampak pelik,nnt orang ingat u gay(ops jgn ade yg terasa).' so rasenye klau yg jantan sejati tu xbuat dah kot?. well ni semua just my opinion jgn plak ade yg muncung mulut. anyway, that's how it is..communication tu penting..selalu jadi masalah punca utama communication..bila ade ter-miscommunication terus jadi perang dunia. even klau bawak flight pun tower salah bg info, mmg i'm flying without wings. jadi semua2 disana, jangalah jadi mcm pokka je, klau xtau pokka tu ape die tu mcm mengkarung. doh angguk2 mcm orang xde akal. bila nak bercouple, ber ber ape pun. tolooongla pikir. tolooongla value diri tu berape hengget. tolooooongla jgn buat prangai mcm jalang/gigolo. ko nak tegedik2 mcm hyena pegi la jauh2 jgn bg orang nmpak ye.
-ranting akan bersambung-
sekian
p/s: klau tak suka jangan baca!
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